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When we are in a relationship; it is about love, understanding, caring, dedication, motivating (each other), respecting, pampering, advising and support. Relationships can’t be bound in sex only because they are beyond that. And that too is for sure that for attaining this level of consistency; one has to be patient, shrewd and understanding. You will fight, you will cry, you will get hurt, sometimes you will even think of separation. But at that time also just be patient. Gi

How can you be so peaceful, so serene, so calm, so beautiful, so present & still a witness…? Watching everything, every chaos, every blessing… Observing… How do you give us so many lessons just by your silence only…? Just by your presence only…? Why you never regret, whether you are in full bloom or not there at all…? How can you be so sure of your existence…? So honest… Can we be like you…? Have a great day friends!!! Medhavi :-)

Yesterday morning an incident took place with lots of co-incidences. As our driver was running late, I had to drop the kids to their school, which I don’t like. But thought lets enjoy a morning drive to freshen up. When I was coming back, at a crossroad, a lengthy red signal was there. Habitually I turned off the engine to avoid pollution & wastage of petrol. And as the red signal was about to turn green, I tried to start the car but to my surprise it didn’t and as I tried to

There is a very important universal law; which says that whatever we do, we do it for ourselves. There is no other way; we CAN do it for ourselves only. Whether good or bad. If we help someone thinking that I’m helping this person to improve his condition, we are completely wrong. The fact is; that person is giving us a chance to improve our karma, because by doing good we are helping ourselves. We are gaining positivity for our self. We are sending positive vibes into the un

??? ?? ???? ????? ??? ?? ???? ????? Chanting and (eating) food should be done in seclusion. I've heard this many times & have always thought bhajan is okay but have never believed in the food part because I used to think on the basis of what our elders say. That, if we eat in front of many people there are chances of "????" (bad eye), that may be some one look at your food with a bad intention and it may not digest you well. But now gradually through my own analyzation I've s

Incidents of road rage are increasing speedily. Do you think now is the time that we should analyze our behavior? Here I’m sharing two incidents, which have recently faced by our drivers and because they both were aged & vulnerable, the other person slapped them too. -       Yesterday morning our driver Awwal Singh was going to drop my daughter to school. As they were about to turn right at a T-point, a bike was coming from the opposite direction. And as my daughter told me l

Dear Indians, I can't express my gratitude and thanks for all the support & thoughtfulness you've shown towards me in the period of my crisis. Till the evening of 16th december 2012, I was just a normal girl, with a normal girl like dreams in my eyes. I also wanted to achieve something in my life, I also had dreams of my prince charming, that one day he will come to marry me, he will love me, respect me, pamper me, protect me and I will have a normal life just like any other

Faced a little incident yesterday while travelling in the metro, with my mother. We took the metro from Iffco Chowk till Green Park. As soon as we got into the train I observed that on our opposite seat all men were sitting, I saw above that seat a small placard was there announcing “Ladies only”. I said to my mom,”Look mom, its written ladies only & all the men are sitting.” Mom said may be if they see a woman standing they will offer their seat to her. But it was not right

I'm happy to be dumb because I belong to this universe. -Medhavi :-)

I faced a tiny but funny incident today, when I went for shopping. When the shopping was almost done, at last I went to buy a traditional dress,for my son Siddharth, to wear on Diwali Poojan. He was wearing his new jacket, which we bought recently. While he was trying on his new dress he took off his jacket & kept it on the counter of the showroom. The salesman, who was attending us, was a bit irritating one, as he wasn't giving us proper suggestions. He just wanted to sell o

I had two super cute Syrian Hamsters, I named them Tic-Tac. They were with us only for three months and when we were out for a vacation, I send them to my mom's place. I didn't know what happened but when we came back mom gave me the news of their sudden demise. I was so shocked, what went wrong.  Mom told me that in night she gave them their food and went to sleep and when she checked them in the morning they both were no more. They died together. I miss them a lot. I rememb

It was the first time the famous pop singer Pitbull was coming to India. Saloni, a sensible teenager, who was his great fan, wanted to go for that concert desperately. Because most foreign singers come but either in the southern part of India or in Mumbai.  Being a resident of Gurgaon, she was happy because this time her favourite singer was coming to The Center Stage Mall, Noida. And luckily it is a weekend  she could easily go. She asked her mom and dad. Her dad Sanjeev and

We Indians are so proud of our history & culture, but does anyone know what some foreigners have done for us. It's beyond expectation, has anyone heard about Max Muller? He was a German philologist and Orientalist. He was the person who was one of the founders of the western academic field of Indian studies. Under his direction "The Sacred books of the East" were translated into english.  He wrote both scholarly and popular works on the subject of Indology, a discipline he in

There are two important parts in the universe, one is the masculine & the other is feminine. They both are equally important, no one is better or slightly less then the other. Without the feminine, masculine figure can not come into the universe. So, avoid the argument of being better then males, instead spend your energy in some more important things. Always remember we are the peacemakers. We are the creators. So, enjoy being a woman, lets take the womanhood to new heights