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Hello friends, Recently I've heard of a few deaths and also I have been to some uthaavanis. My observations have made me write this poetry. Nothing personal. हालाँकि स्वयं का जन्म और मृत्यु तुम्हारे हाथ नहीं किन्तु सुनो, अपनी मृत्यु की प्रार्थना लिस्ट में ये कुछ इच्छाएँ भी शामिल कर लेना क्या पता सुन ही ली जाएँ? मरो, तो ज़रा देख कर मरना वह सप्ताहांत होना चाहिए ताकि लोग आएँ तो कुछ देर तो बैठें हालाँकि वे तब भी चिकचिक करेंगे कि क्या यार, वीकेण्ड ख़राब कर दिया किन्तु तुम तो जा

कमाल है, उसकी वजह से घर, घर होता है उस संग जागता, उस संग ही सोता है वह घर के कण-कण में रहती है फर्नीचर, पर्दों, रसोई के बर्तनों में बसती है फिर भी अपने वजूद को सबमें तलाशती है सबकी आँखों में अपने व्यक्तित्व की पुष्टि चाहती है ओ गृहणी आख़िर तू ऐसी क्यों है तू इन सबसे ऊपर स्वयं की एक पहचान बना कुछ ऐसा कर कि तेरी आँखों में तेरे बच्चे अपना वजूद खोजें तेरे जीवन साथी का व्यक्तित्व तुझसे ही पूर्ण हो और तू विनम्र मुस्कान ओढ़े स्वयं को खोजे सबको एक धागे में पिरोए अपनी गृहस्थी की गाड़

People say, 'they sit by your side in your ups & downs. You become a pet parent, you cuddle with him, he loves you immeasurably. Whenever you arrive at home he welcomes you with showering infinite love. Life moves on... Now you don't ponder over what you heard because his unconditional, endless love is enough for you. Then one day you become really pissed at one of your family members. You are shouting, crying... Suddenly you notice, he is the only one sitting by your side.

Hi friends, Some recent observations about the urban Indian girls made me write these lines. Despite all the conditioning of mind, through families, relatives & society; she is confident, fearless & ready to face the world. Enjoy reading. वह आज की युवा लड़की: - जो गालियों का उपयोग धड़ल्ले से करती है. - जो किसी के घूर कर देखने पर उसे 'मिडल फिंगर' दिखा देती है. - जो रिश्तों की अहमियत बखूबी समझती है. - जो दुनिया की हैरान आँखों के बावजूद हर वह काम करती है जिस पर अब तक केवल लड़क

Hello friends, On the occasion of International Women's Day it's my pleasure along with honour to share with you all the latest issue of an online magazine "Senhora." It feels awesome when young professionals notice your work. Also it was an honour to stand beside Bani Yadav (India's ace women rally driver) & Sushma Sharma (an established entrepreneur). To read the magazine please click Senhora March Issue Best Medhavi :-)

NOTE: This write-up is not for those who are looking for some miracle to loose weight or who want it to be fast. It’s a journey of sheer hard-work, self-analysation, some behavioral management & about training one’s mind & above all changing life style forever.   I remember when in 2009, I joined the gym, the trainer told me that it’s 70% of my diet that would help me to loose weight & gymming or any other form of exercise would only play 30% role. I didn’t pay attention as

Parents, siblings, uncles, grandparents, cousins, nieces & nephews- they are all relatives. A relative can be connected to your family through blood or by marriage. This is how Google defined a relative.   And when I searched for some quotes on relatives, I found:   Relatives who don’t wish on our birthdays, have no right to contact us on our result day.   Fate chooses our relatives, we choose our friends.   When our relatives are at home, we have to think of all thei

Along with our ideas, thoughts & beliefs, unfortunately each of our relationship is also based on some preconceived, & often wrong, notions; experienced by someone else. And surprisingly they travel throughout the society, city, state, nation & the whole world. They create a pressure on each individual, to be believed and often being weaker, we believe them blindly. Without thinking that there are equal chances that we may have a different experience.   The beautiful relati

We often tend to compare our children with others and mostly find others better. We all know comparing is not good. Biologically we all are different, this difference is what makes this world so beautiful. Different ideas, ways of living, cultures, languages, and personalities make our planet worth living. Here I am trying to put some light in terms of your child’s individuality. Your child is the best No matter what others say or talk about your child, there is absolutely no

Learning new things & gaining knowledge is a never-ending journey. It depends how open are the windows of one’s mind. Once you are awake, you are awake.   No matter what were the circumstances when you left your education. Be thankful because at that point of your life something else was meant to happen & hopefully, sooner or later, you must have embraced it joyfully. Over the years you must have developed some new insights, perspectives & I am sure you would have become mo

In times when as an individual, along with our country, we find it inevitable to love & respect few countries, along with their people; due to the thoughts we have given since childhood. There is a person who is going beyond this mindset, moving into their people’s hearts & taking out the stories exactly similar to us. And we are finding that they are people like us, & not countries, fighting with society, their own emotions & facing their own nervousnesses.   I’ve read ma

Life is all about feeling good because good feelings make us feel worthy, satisfied & lighter on our feet. The feel good factor is directly related to a clearer conscience, which is always ready to help someone in need. In this context I would like to share one of my personal experience. A Life Transforming Beginning Earlier whenever I used to walk on the streets, I used to crib on seeing stray dogs, that why are they here? Why don’t the government take the necessary steps to

When it comes to emotions aren't we all passengers of the same boat? Why & how they control us, why do we mostly surrender in front of them? When would we learn to handle them? As humans we tend to observe & judge, often unnecessarily & enhance our own emotional problems; especially with our near & dear ones. Positive emotions include joy, happiness, hope, pleasure etc. while its the negative ones that control us; e.g. anger, disgust, dismay, proud to name a few. The reason w

Every art expression is rooted fundamentally in the personality & temperament of the artist. - Hans Hofman I was not at all aware of the beauty & benefits of expression before. Due to some happenings in my life I started writing in 2010. It was like finding an entirely hidden aspect of my own persona. Since past 5 years, I've strengthened my relationship with pen & I know, together we have a long way to go. Some people express through dancing, some through painting or acting.

When we start our journey towards self-improvement, we have to peel off the layers of our own preconceived notions & beliefs, one after the other. We learn to deal with our negative traits & the energy oozed out from them. According to me judgment comes in some of the top self-generated problems. Here is how we can deal with it: 1. If you would analyze your past or present, you would realize how being a judge has always wounded you for no reason. Then why to stick to it? Rel

We all face variety of problems day in & day out, however the difference, between a calm being & a frustrated one, lies in the way of dealing with them. Well, life is what we make it & one can definitely learn to face the problems with a new perspective. Here is how: 1. You are not the only one Ask yourself, 'am I the only one, in the whole world, who is having all these issues in life?' The answer would come,'dear there are innumerate beings like you & even a bigger number b

मैं स्वयं से प्रेम करती हूँ अपनी सोहबत में प्रसन्न रहती हूँ. अपने मन की दुविधाओं से जूझती उहा-पोह में विचरती स्वयं की सलाह मान लेती हूँ. अपनी व्यस्त दिनचर्या में से कुछ पल निकाल दर्पण के आगे, स्वयं को निहार मैं मुस्करा लेती हूँ. जानती हूँ, उम्र बढ़ रही है फिर भी अपनी गरिमा पर मैं मुग्ध होती हूँ. जीवन में जो भी करती हूँ अपना सर्वश्रेष्ठ देने का प्रयास करती हूँ. यदि परिणाम भिन्न रहें तब भी रात्रि में चिंतामुक्त हो सोती हूँ. हर हाल में प्रसन्न रहती हूँ चूँकि मैं स्त्री हूँ

क्रोध हो या मान लोभ हो या माया धीमी आँच. दूर हो या पास भूख हो या प्यास धीमी आँच. जीवन को सरल बनाना है मुस्कराते हुए बिताना है तो, धीमी आँच. जैसे धीमी आँच पर पका भोजन है बेहतर वैसे धीमी आँच पर जिया गया जीवन है परिपक्व आओ, करें धीमी आँच. Have a great day friends!!! Medhavi :-)

Wherever my money is going Abundance… Whoever is providing service to me Gratitude… Whoever I am providing service to Thankfulness… Where there is tension Peace of mind… Where there is sorrow Bliss… Whoever is ill Good health… Where there is violence Tranquility… Today & everyday What else can I ask for O mother Universe. Have pleasant evening friends!!! Medhavi :-)

What is Life-Coaching Life coaching is altogether different from consultancy & therapy. Here the coach makes you believe in yourself, reminds you of your strengths & gives you honest feedback. A coach never tells you what to do, instead she helps you find your own solutions. Google & Wiki definitions of a life-coach Google: A person employed to help people attain their goals. Wikipedia:  Coaching  is training or development in which a person called a "coach" supports a learn